Add Comment Question: Both my boyfriend and I are on long term disability. We decided to move in together. Now he has to move out or we lose our bennifets.Can they do this? Answer: I don’t understand why you would lose your benefits. Did you ask for an explanation? The insurer needs to provide specific reasons for why the benefit is being cancelled if you live together. Your Comment * Your Email * Your Name * Your City Note, your name, city and email is not displayed on the website. It is used to notify you that we have approved your comment.